Illustrative example: splitting bills 60/40
Alex brings home 36,000 kr and Sam 24,000 kr. Their shared monthly bills total 18,000 kr.
Alex earns 60% of their combined income and contributes 10,800 kr. Sam earns 40% and contributes 7,200 kr.
The calculation is neutral; deciding whether it feels fair is a conversation. Compare it with 9,000 kr each, then choose deliberately.
How to split bills based on incomeA monthly routine that avoids scorekeeping
Define what is shared
Rent and utilities are obvious. Agree separately on groceries, subscriptions, travel and purchases that mainly benefit one person.
Use current net income
If you split by income, use the amount each person can actually budget from and update it after a job change or leave period.
Close the month once
Record what each person paid, make one balancing transfer if needed, and start the next month without carrying a vague debt.